Is this a good place for a tattoo ? How much does it hurt to get it there ? and what about distortion ?

If you are worried about pain, the inevitable distortion, and whether people will think of it as a not-very-manly location, you would be better off not getting a tattoo in the first place. With those concerns, you will definitely regret it on all three counts. And you are very smart to think about these things before committing to it. Most people your age just plunge ahead and never think of the consequences till it is too late.